Is it what every modern couple does or is it a sign of far too much micromanaging that we're basically writing our entire wedding ceremony?
Not that we're writing writing it from scratch. We've got some books from the library with a lot of samples that are a great help. Basically we're picking our favorite bits, trying to leave out anything that goes on and on about how much misery we'll face together (bummer man), or items about how marriage is the most important thing ever (harsh on the single people in attendance) or suggestions that our marriage is all part of God's special plan (he should focus less on us and work more on making the Browns better... seriously, we'll be fine).
Hopefully when it's all done it'll be yet another accomplishment, micromanaged to success.